When you call into the chat lines you want to make sure that you can keep the conversation going. Especially if you have a really interesting partner on the line and you know that you want to talk to them longer. Or maybe you want to pas the time and you don’t want to hang up the phone quite yet. There are really simple and easy ways to effortlessly keep your partner interested and chatting with you.
Try asking about something that interests them. Usually, people can talk about their interests for hours and you will learn a lot about what kind of people they are and their personalities if you find out what they really like. This can be sexual or every day things that they like to do. You know that someone who loves to read or is into art may have a little more patience than someone else. Or people who love to hike or go to amusement parks have higher energy than most!
Ask your partner open-ended questions. Questions that can be answered with a yes or a no won’t tell you much about your new phone chat partner. Try asking them things that they need to answer in more than one word. Instead of asking “was your day good?” ask them how their day was and if anything interesting happened. This was you get the chance to allow them to talk longer about their day and be a little more open with you.
Being open with your phone chat partner is going to allow them to be more open as well. Share personal stories or funny things that happened to you. When you are vulnerable they feel as though they can share more personal things as well!
Overall just focus on having fun and getting to know the people who call into the chat lines! We are all here to make connections and share with others!